Redefining

Redefining.
I was asked: how close are you both?
It's startled me. I started to ask the same question to myself. How close are we? How do you define closeness?
When you shared personal stuffs or thoughts or what went through your mind and all? Does that mean you both are close? How would you know if the conversation that were relaying to you are the facts or means anything? This has been mingling in my head for days now.
1. Why would I think it's not the fact? Ermmm to be honest I would use the word Truth.
2. Due to number 1 question, I doubt the relationship.

I observe people as I interact, I learn the fact about the behaviors, how they deal with certain circumstances provided with what they have. I try to remove and note the negative vibes and pick up the positive ones. It has not been easy, but I'm getting there.
There are time, people, and place that you know that it is the fact and it is the truth without second thought. As we grow, we learned, an experience, it has became part of us. Becomes and instinct of what about to happen and what can you do to prevent or deal or live with it. It doesn't mean it's all problems. Could be anything, could be a challenge, an achievement, getting to know someone, so on and so forth.

This part of the journey, has been challenging and exciting and painful; and sometime all of them at once. When I have doubt in a relationship, I go back to see what have done so far? Where have we been? Has it all been a lie? Or does mean that I have new things to learn to accept and to live with this new behavior that I have not encountered before?

Don't get me wrong, I am referring to the general and normal relationship here. It could been anything. It just the way of human lives. We all have new things to learn every new day.

So given the time that I know the person and how much I have known them today, I would answer: Yes, we are close. And we click that is why we get along in such a short period and can actually tell one and another. I need to give them and myself more time to learn about each other and from each other. That would teach me how to trust in a relationship and no doubt shall be given.

I am redefining this journey, a few things, starting from this relationship. To make it better, to keep us all closer.

Choon Sen && Bee Eng, December 2011

I was again witnessed the beautiful service and wedding reception for Choon Sen and Bee Eng, the good friends of mine.

It was a joyful day and lovely wedding with the old friends gathering with bliss.

May God be the light shine your path and bring you joy, love and happiness for the eternity.

To Choon Sen && Bee Eng!

To Jonny & Jessie

Today is my good friend's wedding. It was an eventful service and reception. I'm glad I could be part of it.

Wishing the newly wedded couple a wonderful life journey together...

Jacob and his first time steamboat experience.

p.s. no, he wasn't calling his family and telling them that he's having steamboat.

The joy of living is by celebrating it

I have to admit that we are one crazy gang, don't you think? hahaha but that's the good thing. At our age, with the work load and stuffs if we take everything very seriously I bet we will definitely can't live long enough to see how will life be for the next 50 years heh.

Hence, we celebrate the joy of living by gather and bring laughter and joy. So, what I'm about to show you here, this entry will share to you how we celebrate life, love and bring the joy around. hahaha sound like i'm trying to sell stuffs. Yes, I am. I am selling the thought to you to learn how to enjoy and live life~! XD

Some believe they could control thing by using mind

Or think they could fly

The woowoozela fan

The animal lover


and the...errr.....ah hem....

Ooo that's the five of us

It was Katak's birthday. A gathering with a few friends at home. A very nice dinner. A very joyful and fun night :)

Thanks to Ah Ma for all the foods and the love

and the cake too

God bless and Happy birthday to Katak~

The Birthday, Belated Birthday and the pre-Christmas Dinner

December 18th is our uncle miaow's birthday. We decided to have a dinner gathering, as well, with Reza's belated birthday and the coming Christmas pre-dinner. It was fun and joy, met new friend and met up the crazy and funny friends.

Reza: don't you dare to take my food!

Uncle miaow, the habit photographer

Happy birthday, belated birthday and Merry Christmas

And of course the traditional birthday that the birthday boy have to follow.

Once again, Happy Birthday, Belated Birthday boys~ and Merry Christmas to all

August Gathering

Once a while we gather up for lunch or dinner to catch up what have we all been doing. This August, we met up at O'Viet at Sunway Pyramid.

I love the food at O'Viet, only one problem... it's a little over price to me. It might because of it's Vietnamese food that serve in Malaysia but a five pieces of chicken that cost more than RM16 that's not what I'm looking forward to.

Anyway, maybe special occasion like this would serve it right. Ah well, nothing is cheap and is good, that's what they say. Below are some snaps of the food, not many because I was busy rolling the spring roll for the rest O.o||

Mix platter comes with 4 pieces of rice paper

Deep fried spring roll

Deep fried Cambodian's style chicken

Stuffed Wings

Vietnamese style coffee (dripped coffee)

That would be me busying rolling the rice papers...

Joining us at the gathering is our special guest

Penguin

Winnie

Ju (aka Pig)

Choon Sen

The one and only who like to hide her face, Melisa

*Smile*